First date nerves. First date fatigue. First dates that lead to nothing. The dating game can feel like a bit of a minefield. You can get so wrapped up in how you’re coming across and what the other person thinks of you, that you stop being you. This is probably the single worst thing you can do! I realised I have a pretty good track record of getting asked out onto a 2nd date. In fact, I can only think of 2 guys that didn’t ask - and on reflection, we just weren’t compatible.